Ecclesiastes 3:11

"God makes everything happen at the right time. Yet none of us can ever fully understand all that He has done." Ecclesiastes 3:11

We continue to pray for TA (travel approval) to arrive and believe that His timing is perfect. Resting in His care for Zane - God loves Him more!

We did do the big Walmart run for all the trip supplies - felt so great to check off all those things in our packing/to-do list and felt so good to get more things for Zane. Love that boy!

Somehow Elle understood that China travel would be in about...'two weeks'. So she'll ask several times a day, 'Mama, China, two weeks?' A lot of times I have answered, 'First we have to wait for God to say yes. Let me know if He tells you yes!' Sometimes she says, 'Mama, China now?' And I say, 'No, we have to wait until God says yes!' Today she was emphatic about it - every 30 minutes she'd say, 'Mama, China, two weeks?' Just before bed and while changing her into her pajamas, she says again, 'Mama, China, two weeks', and then it occurred to me, it's two weeks until August 20, the day we are praying to leave....'Yes, Elle, that's what we're praying for - did God tell you yes?', and she says, 'Yes.' :)

Funny from this morning - I'm slowly getting around in the kitchen and Elle is 'begging' for breakfast...

Elle: 'Mama, eat, eat, Mama eat?'
Me: 'Hold on Elle, I'm getting it.'
Elle: 'Two weeks?'
LOL!
Me: 'No, a little sooner than that!'

Another fun/funny/great Elle story...

We've noticed that while we're praying before bedtime, Elle's body shakes. So I peeked a week ago and she's shaking her head left to right, like she's saying 'no'. A few nights later I realize what's going on here....she has noticed that I nod my head in agreement when others pray and sometimes say the word 'yes'. So she's trying to pray in agreement, but she's gotten her shake and nod mixed up! :)

So two mornings ago she starts shaking while I'm praying at breakfast. I peeked again and she was passionately shaking left to right with her eyes closed. After I finished, I explained that we nod our head in agreement when others pray, to express our unity in prayer. I demonstrated a nod and explained that we move our head up and down like so, as if we are saying 'yes, I agree'. She's really quiet and takes it all in and then says, 'I pray.' I already prayed, but whatever, so 'okay.'

Elle (nodding): 'Ear God, yes, yeeeees, y-e-s! Yes, yes! Yessssssss, yeeeeeees, yes! Amen.'

Yes, I laughed - hard!

Keeping busy!

Well, things start getting blurred once RA (referral acceptance) is received. I feel like we are in organized chaos right now. There are stacks of paper, clothes, supplies here and there, and I know just where everything's at - so no one breathe, on anything! ;)

We did get Zane's care package in the mail on Monday - praying for its safe arrival to our boy - we included three outfits, sleeper, toy truck, cloths, family album, teddy bear, disposable camera, chocolate covered sunflowers from Kansas made by KC's Russell Stover for the orphanage staff, and a letter of gratitude and instruction on enclosed items - all thanks to Mei's translation. When I was packing it up, right before putting in the toy truck, Elle says, 'Wait', takes the truck out of my hands, kisses it and then gives it back to me, waving 'bye, Zane!" Ahhhhhh, sweet girl! :)

I've been buying more of this and that - a few baby items for the room, some clothes - most of the clothes I'm buying are around 3-6 months and 6-9 months. Last time we were in China, we enjoyed beautiful Fall weather - it's gonna be hot this time around. At least we'll be able to enjoy the pool, aye?! Also cuts down on the different season of clothes to bring.

Been filling out more paperwork - travel info, visa applications and preparing the paper items we'll need on the trip. Our agency again reiterated to us today that they will do everything they can to get us in the August travel group. Now we wait for TA and are praying it arrives next week. We immediately booked an appointment for Zane with the cl/cp team for September 18 and were told there were no more appointments until January. It really seems crucial that we travel in August so we can make this appointment and enjoy being with him on his birthday. We know that God works all things together for good - so we trust that His timing will be perfect and pray with great faith.

Still left for this week, finish getting our travel website ready, visa applications mailed, and waiting for the Haberman and Mead Johnson bottles to arrive - they are special cleft lip/palate bottles. We are going to bring a couple of different nipples - hoping to find the right fit for Zane.

Before all this excitement, Elle and I enjoyed a fabulous week, first an afternoon visit with adoption buddy, Laurie, and her two beautiful kiddos from China, and then four days with my dear friend, Alice, and her girls. Alice and husband, Wade, were a part of casting a vision of China for us, now years ago! We explored their new city, hung around the house drinking amaretto coffee and watched our girls become friends. It was a great time and got even better when while sitting on her couch I received the call from our agency of the referral acceptance. Definitely a blast sharing that with Alice! Below are some great pictures and video from our week.

We ended the week celebrating our niece, Michaela's, 13th and Eric's brother, Chris', 40th at a surprise party. They were both very taken back and it was a pleasure to be with them for such a grand celebration.

Happy bday Chris & Michaela!

Theme Verse

Today's theme verse is "The one who calls you is faithful and He will do it." 1 Thessalonians 5:24

'Operation China' is underway and the 'to do' list is, well, long! What a day today was...

There were money things that needed to get in order - and are now well underway by His provision - we will continue in faith and praise Him!
Elle's passport was needed for a Wednesday deadline - and arrived in the mail today - He is able!
Zane's care package needed letter translation and labeling - and was supplied by a friend, Mei, from church - God's people are amazing!
Baby room is currently non-existent - but Zane's bedding arrived giving us a thrill of what is to come - thank you Father!
Unexpected gifts from the mother of dear friends were opened - and this blesses us so!
And, a friend sent me part of an email I sent her back in 2006 - "I'm so over the top, gone, in love with this little girl! I can't stop looking at her! She's the most beautiful thing I've ever seen! I think I've completely lost it. I can't do anything without thinking of her every second. I can't hardly stand this wait - it's completely cruel!!!!!!" - and then God goes and does it again with our precious Zane!

Everything continues to unfold because of His graciousness and provision - so when my SIL reminded me of this scripture - I claimed it as today's theme verse! Can't wait to see what he'll do tomorrow! :)

Man vs. Mole

Well, it took 6 hours, 11 digs (revealing 16 tunnels) and half of the WaterOne city storage tank, but I finally flooded him out of his Terra haven. I found him above-ground, his front half completely soaked, wandering aimlessly under the slide on Elle's playground. I picked him up with the shovel and put him in a bucket to show Kate & Elle, then went inside to eat dinner.

While eating, the thrill of victory faded, and I started to feel a little sorry for the poor guy -- the thought of whacking a blind, wet, defenseless animal with a shovel didn't seem right, soooo, I decided to take him to a field on the other side of Hwy7 and let him go. Out there, it is not physically possible for him or his offspring to ever make it back to our fertile soil.

And that's what I did. He was halfway into the ground by the time I stood upright.

So tonight I'll rest a little easier, knowing that the yard can begin healing, and that I was the better man... :D - Eric

And I (Kate) am glad this is finally over! Time to get ready for Zane and China!

Doing the RA happy dance & introducing our Zane!

We are completely AWED and thrilled - WE RECEIVED OUR REFERRAL APPROVAL (RA/LOA - 3:47 p.m.) from Ch*na today!!!!!! It has been just 46 days since we first laid eyes on our Zane and were prepared to wait at least 1-2 months longer. The arrival of our approval has our heads spinning! My SIL, Alicia, has been fervently praying that we would be in China for Zane's 1st birthday, September 1. I told her that this would be miraculous and that she should start fasting every day for that kind of speed! :) We have been encouraged by her enthusiasm and faithfulness and blessed by God's graciousness. We don't know why this happened so quickly....maybe because our dossier has been in Ch*na for a year and a half and had made it through some review or was higher up in the stack (???) or maybe because we are under the old adoption agreement vs. the new (Hague) one, but all honor and glory and praise goes to our heavenly Father who has every part of this journey, our paperwork and our boy in the palm of His hand. "The mind of man plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps." Proverbs 16:9

So without further ado...here is our boy, Zane Leland Wolfe!




And here are those dimples I blogged about... :)



We think we can see one on his right cheek and then there's a shadow of one on his left -- we will know, very soon! Isn't he just a handsome little guy - such a sweet face, happy eyes and a good heart - that's what we see in our boy! We are so very proud of him!

Because Elle and I are out-of-town visiting friends, Eric will sign papers arriving via FedEx tomorrow, then overnight everything to me, I'll sign and then overnight everything to our agency for the Friday deadline to get out to China this week. Then, we wait again -- waiting for travel approval. Our agency rep said that we should prepare for August travel and the latest being the first part of September.

It was a bummer to not be with Eric today - but we rejoiced over our cell phones and sat in stunned silence too! Elle and I took a pic together to celebrate our RA and dear friend, Alice, jumped up and down and screamed with me - ahhhhhhhhhh! Such a marvelous day!

Please continue to pray for our Zane, our travel approval, travel plans, medical preparation and all those details.... In my quiet time tonight, I will also be praying for all the families still waiting for their precious children - that God would continue to move the mountains to bring their babies home.

More Zane pics & dimples?!

We joined a Fuj*an Yahoo group to learn more about the Province and meet other families who might have adopted their child through the same orphanage as Zane's. I posted an introduction yesterday and got a reply from a lady who is currently living in China with her family. They adopted their daughter from Gut*an in 2005 and went back there for a visit at New Year’s this year. She said she was sure she would have a picture of our son, so I sent her a pic of Zane and she sent back five!!! How precious for us to have these extra photos! These pictures are better quality than the ones we had received from China. We are thanking God for this great blessing!

There is one picture where Zane is smiling with all his heart - so precious! Upon further study, PEOPLES, I think he may have dimples!! I know it's just a guess, but I deciphered Elle's cleft chin from a small shadow on her referral picture - so I'm going with my gut and won't be disappointed either way! :) I know, you think I'm delusional...we will see! ;)

Since I can't post those dimples, I'll leave you with a picture of our 'cleft chin' with Grandpa and Grandma on the 4th.

Words & Prayers

Whoa - the words and sentences are coming out of Elle! Maybe she's been inspired by having her Grandpa and Grandma here for a visit from Russia!

Yesterday she said...
"I'll be right back."
"I cut AA's card." (Got in trouble for that!)

Regularly she's saying...
"I'll get it!" ;)

And minute by minute we hear...
"No help, myself!"

This morning she said...
"No help, I tell Daddy."

Everything, lately, is preceded by "No help, Mama, I do it, myself!" But often it's quickly followed by "Help Mama!" Brother! ;)

I told her Monday evening that we were going to the pool in the morning to swim with friends. This is how the conversation went...

E: "No help, myself, Mama!"
Me: "Well, I think it would be okay if Mama helped a little bit...like helping you get your swimsuit on, fixing breakfast, packing our picnic lunch, getting you into the car, driving you to the pool, paying your admission, and putting on your sunscreen. How about a little help from Mama?"
E: "Yeeeeeees"....(and then as she walked away)..."No help, myself!"

Sigh.... :)

We continue, of course, to pray for our Zane. Elle rarely misses praying for Zane at every meal and we are touched by her concern and love for her little brother. A few days after receiving Zane's referral, I spent a day fasting and praying, lifting up Zane and the journey that lays in front of us....Elle had heard us praying for Zane just the two days before, but when we bowed our heads over her oatmeal and my glass of water, she took the initiative to pray for Zane, unprompted, for the very first time. It was so moving to me and of course, I wept!

She said, "Ear Ga, pease help Ane China. Pane Mama, pane Dada, pane Elle China, Ane home, Mama home, Dada home, Elle home, Amen."

Translation: "Dear God, please help Zane China, Plane Mama, plane Dada, plane Elle China. Zane home, Mama home, Dada home, Elle home, Amen."

Sigh...we are so blessed by our dear Elle Belle! Thank you God for your good gifts!

I'll leave you with some video....